The only person responsible for, or in charge of how you feel is absolutely, one hundred percent you. You decide how your life moves. Sometimes shitty things happen. That does not mean that if something shitty does happen that it’s your fault, or that you should then blame yourself for it happening. What it means is that you get to decide from that point forward what you’re going to do about it. 

Don’t wallow. 

Don’t weep. 

Don’t waste time. 

Do what you need to do to get yourself together. 

Be present. Be alive. Be happy.